I will be very happy to talk about myself on this forum about my life experiences. I was very under pressured personality a few days back. I’m very poor beyond your thoughts as my father is the poor person. But he worked hard for me to make me able to stand up in front of you guys. He educated me, nurses me, feeds me and teach me to walk for the first time in my life. My mother was very kind hearted as like all mothers of the world. In fact, each and every person in the world feels that his or her mother is the world’s best mother. Because of its natural phenomena.
Let’s talk a look how I was under a pressured person. I feel shy about asking questions. I feel shy on debates but as a writer I was good. I’m going to tell you some worst factors of failure.
What our worst mistake in our life by which we are unable to progress and left behind the successful person? Below are worst factors of failure.
worst factors of failure:
- Being unaware of our qualities.
- We are unable to figure out our mental approach or we don’t struggle so much to get it.
- We don’t question the people about things happening around our scenario.
- So, time lack of motivation but it’s don’t play any role.
- It is your inner self who motivates you about deeds.
- Many of us don’t assess our self about in which discipline we are best and can compete for the world.
- We don’t have a secure faith.
- We don’t take insults as a lesson. Keep in mind very clear that while we are being insulted by someone. Mostly, we miss judged the scenes. We don’t think about his or her mind as he or she is trying to teach us some good lessons.
- We started with holding a wrong perception of people.
- The factor of judgmentalism as our life passes.
- We started looking negative things in others.
- A bad company may be a factor in unsuccessful life.
- We don’t talk our failure seriously. As failure is the best teachings for someone to learn about what to do in future.
- We got depressed on our failure. Infect, failure itself is our sign of victory. As it tells us about our shortcoming that we did in past.
- We started believing in fate and do blame God for what is happening around us.
These are 15 factors of unsuccessfulness. Let’s now discuss how we can overcome such situation.
Self-assessment is the key factor of a successful human being. He sets himself as an example in front of the people by doing this. Analyze yourself about your attitude to others, education, subject of interest, goal setup and body index. Body is sometimes necessary because if you indulge yourself in that task that your physical condition does not allow to do it is a loss of time, energy and all the efforts.
In modern countries, parents assess their offspring and get pain about their future lives. They assess them in studies, sports, thoughts, and adaptive behaviors. So, we should take a keen interest in our beloved children and assess them in these disciplines. Miss judgment or no judgment can ruin our loved one’s life. For instance, we wanted our child to become a doctor and put him in medical studies. But, he is not totally interested in that and he also has some poor results in his past exams in such category but bright in mathematics. And, we imposed our final decision on him. He will not become a good doctor as well as he will fail in engineering too. So, the final verdict is that assessment is the key factor for success. Not assessing yourself is one of the worst factors of failure.
Confidence can be termed as facing the world with an honor. Decision-making power about critical matters. Speech in front of a huge audience also come in confidence. Wellness of doing something extraordinary. Having a strong nervous system. Accepting mistakes is also a kind of confidence. How can we build our confidence? It is very easy and simple answer. It includes reading, behavior, norms, speech, and assessment. One should practice speaking in a loud voice in front of the people. Reading books strongly build our great confidence. “A person can speak if he has words to speak”. Listen to others whether they are right or wrong. Laugh, make a joke, speak loud enough so your voice should be clear to your listeners. Do not feel shy in front of the crowd and fear of the people. Misjudging people lead to fear directly. Fight for your rights.
Follow the principles of great people. Listen, everybody, whether he/she is good or bad, assess their words, scrutinize the good things and adopt these. Look at the people deeds. Adopt good habits and refrain from the bad ones. The passion of something is the name of confidence. Setup a goal in life. Without a specific goal, there is no use of life.
Selection of Friends:
Someone greatly said precious words “A man is known by the company he keeps”. Make a list of good qualities and find them in your classmates, colleagues, neighbors, and people around you. Make good sophisticated, generous, intellectual, kind, and intelligent friends. Share your feelings with them and ask about them. Have a party and funny things.
Accepting the Modern World:
Keep an eye on the modern inventions, discoveries and environmental changes around the globe. Use of gadgets makes you smarter and attractive. Become an innovation lover. The world is changing every single and producing a new picture from space. Participate in debates on modernism. Its 21st century and the human being is planning to live on Mars. Be a part of the global race. Have faith in your creator and Praise His glory. Discover the world. The world itself will give you the answers.
Deal with Depression:
Depression in my is a kind of fear that stops us from doing something bigger in our life. The beautiful thing about failure or mistake is it includes a great lesson of success in it. But, people underestimate this lesson and become worried. They got depressed and finally, anxiety occurs. Losing hope is the worst form of depression. Here I’m very excited to quote “when there is a will there is a way”. You should have the willpower to stop smoking. Willpower is the great tool to overcome the depression in many ways. You should build up the courage to face the consequences rather than sitting alone in the black room. Indulge yourself in healthy activities like daily exercise. Stop blaming others and find the shortcoming in yourself.